I get asked this question a lot, and the answer is always ‘don’t know yet’..
I would LOVE another baby, I loved being pregnant and I loved having a tiny little squishy newborn to have cuddles with all day.
When is the right time? I guess it’s different for everyone- I would love a brother or sister for Alfie
and I know he would make an amazing brother to a sibling. He’s so loving and gentle with babies and finds them fascinating. I’ve always wanted babies close in age so they always have a ‘friend’.
The moment isn’t right for us at the minute, I don’t live with my boyfriend. We live apart. It’s hard- I bring up Alfie all week and then we only see him on weekends. Thankfully, we are looking for houses and saving up and we’re hoping to have somewhere at the beginning of next year.
In the back of my head, I’m scared of having another baby. I got post natal depression and still do suffer with it so how would I be able to bring up two? Alfie is stressful enough of his own but adding another to the mix would just be so hard.
As much as I’m broody- I know it’s best to wait to add another baby to our family. And when we do I will appreciate it a whole lot more.